Do You Suspect a Cheating Spouse? Don’t Make These Common Mistakes!
Leaving, separating or confronting your partner should NOT be your first move, but the last resort. You may feel that your spouse is having an affair, but you need evidence of them being unfaithful. If you separate or confront them your decision to do so will never provide you with the facts.
Do Not Discuss Your Suspicions
It is perfectly understandable that you want to get your thoughts out by confiding in a friend or family member, you should do so with caution. The reasons for this are two fold. One is the person your confiding in able to keep this information confidential or are they prone to gossip? This information has found its way back to the spouse before. Secondly, however unpleasant it may sound, it is not uncommon that your cheating spouse is involved with the very friend that you maybe confiding in.
As disturbing and emotionally troubling as it is to find you are living with a cheating spouse, pretending to ignore it and go into denial is the worst thing you can do. It is probably the most harmful way to deal with the difficult situation. When you choose to ignore your partners’ infidelity, you are giving the impression of a silent approval.
Don’t Go On The Defensive
An over whelming desire to confront your partner or the person you believe they are having an affair with is understandable. But we have seen time and time again that this will often drive them closer together. Repeatedly questioning your spouse or speaking about the other person negatively will often make them defensive and protective of each other.
Get the Facts
Rumors and unfounded suspicions have destroyed many relationships. What you need is irrefutable proof, followed by a well thought out decision on whether you will leave your partner or choose to rebuild your marriage and/or relationship. About 20% of the time our infidelity-investigations have shown that the partner was not being unfaithful.
Why Contact an Infidelity Investigator?
- Surveillance –Our private investigators have conducted thousands of infidelity investigations. We have caught a cheating spouse through our advanced surveillance methods to make sure that you have the evidence you need. Rather than relying on rumors, an experienced investigator can provide proof.
- Evidence –Viewing a cheating spouse caught on video is not pleasant, however uncovering proof of infidelity should be your goal. With this evidence you can land a better divorce settlement or use it as a tool to confront your mate and begin working on rebuilding the relationship. When you are armed with solid proof that your spouse is faithful, the peace of mind can help ensure that your relationship survives any suspicion.
- Professional –When you hire The Grafton Group, we select the investigator from our staff who is experienced in finding out whether your spouse is unfaithful or not. They have access to technology that many agencies do not invest in and experience that private individuals do not have.
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